buy everything pre-owned/used. the whole baby industry caters to first time parents with the idea that "if you love your kid, you will give it (buy) it the best

buy everything pre-owned/used. the whole baby industry caters to first time parents with the idea that "if you love your kid, you will give it (buy) it the best / more expensive". but experienced parents know that is bullshit and your kid will go through everything: clothes, diapers, toys in a breeze.. so it's much better to buy pre-owned, and then have your money saved for real emergencies (like a medical problem). Apart from that your child changes so fast in the first three years that you don't want to miss anything about it . leave work at work... and your smartphone at the door... enjoy every precious moment