It can be tough no doubt. I like to view it as the cost of being the kind of person who helps. It takes an excess of strength to help, so you can see yourself a

It can be tough no doubt. I like to view it as the cost of being the kind of person who helps. It takes an excess of strength to help, so you can see yourself as being strong because of that. You have an excess of capability in some dimension and you're willing to share it. Sometimes a person may take advantage of you, but that's a commentary on them, not on you.