I agree with your points, but ironically they're not the case for me. I do have a favourite colour, bright magenta (I do worry that it's stereotypical of me, b

I agree with your points, but ironically they're not the case for me. I do have a favourite colour, bright magenta (I do worry that it's stereotypical of me, being gay, but I certainly never made a concious choice, and I'm not someone who makes my sexuality obvious to people, so... hopeflly a coincidence). As to the thing you love.. well actually there's quite a few, right now I really love my job. but the thing I always wanted to do was music, from a young age. From 9-13 I actually was a professional singer in a very good choir (professional meaning being paid well, a couple of recordings a year, many international concerts), and despite having been there and done that, it's still what I would really love to do for the rest of my life. Love doesn't always have an expiry date.