this is outrageous?! and I feel totally on the outside of like 80% of these comments in a bad way for saying that. I started copying and pasting lines and resp

this is outrageous?! and I feel totally on the outside of like 80% of these comments in a bad way for saying that. I started copying and pasting lines and responding to them but on edit it seems pointless. I would just say that good relationships work in both directions, 1+1=3 idiom, and come in vastly many forms. Intimacy doesn't fade in a good relationship it grows stronger. For sure the type of women you seem to be looking for exist and enjoy that type of relationship. But a lot of people, of all genders and orientations, find the things you don't seem to think are good qualities, are in fact the things 'that they can get along with.' And I would maybe suggest instead looking more at the 'programming' of gender and roles. Women aren't simply a transaction or variable in your equation of an ideal relationship.