> Different thing. "I told you so" is a smug, nasty statement I agree. The fact that the parent feels like his warning were ignored and his voice was unheard i

> Different thing. "I told you so" is a smug, nasty statement I agree. The fact that the parent feels like his warning were ignored and his voice was unheard is a cause for frustration. Having a postmortem process after each incident would prevent such frustration. > A postmortem is a clinical, reasoned, and scientific review. I'm well aware of this.