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This is a troubling trend that I see in my sons and that I battle in myself. Why go out and compete for money, success and sex when those things are at your fi
by listless 5y ago
This is a troubling trend that I see in my sons and that I battle in myself.
Why go out and compete for money, success and sex when those things are at your fingertips. I really think it’s as simple as “turn off the TV”. The problem is that the world is a hard place, and games/porn offer a “good enough” alternative that offsets the trouble of putting yourself out there.
Sorry for making this thread weird by bringing porn in.
- BitwiseFool 5y agoNo, it's absolutely part of the equation. The internet has been an absolute game changer for how the human libido is satisfied. Pornography went from something rarely seen and socially awkward to acquire to something that is now ubiquitous, instant access, and even individualized. In fact, you have to go out of your way to avoid seeing sexual content on the internet.
- esarbe 5y agoOr brains and reward-systems have evolved for an existence as semi-nomadic subsidence hunter-gatherers. We're not equipped to deal with "temptations" modern society has to offer. While porn might be a particularly good example, there's plenty of other traps as well. Social media, games, gambling, ... All that is geared towards maximized 'engagement', e.g. to make us as addicted as possible in as little time as possible. It plays into our worst tendencies. https://www.yourbrainonporn.com/ https://www.yourbrainonporn.com/