It’s sort of like when women entered the work force and built careers. They started to get married later and having kids later. Men are now reverting to the me

It’s sort of like when women entered the work force and built careers. They started to get married later and having kids later. Men are now reverting to the mean a little bit. This could be a natural normalization of a situation where men were exalted as industrious, and women were literally left at home. Both extremes are bad. One day we’ll just have two 30 year old stay-at-homes get married and not think twice about it. No expectations or judgement on ones job and aspirations, or gender specific duties. Just two genuine deadbeats. What’s so distasteful about it? Truly nothing, but yet, why doesn’t it feel right?