I've noticed this is much more pronounced if there's been no discussion before the PR (talking more about larger decisions than what's in the bulk of code revie

I've noticed this is much more pronounced if there's been no discussion before the PR (talking more about larger decisions than what's in the bulk of code review feedback I guess). I've observed many times people being frustrated because they write some code without making sure the relevant people are happy with the overall approach, then getting torn apart in the PR.