Hey Apple employees! All I want is selective contact sharing! Its still all or nothing! I can't give Clubhouse invites without them and the CCP knowing that I

Hey Apple employees! All I want is selective contact sharing! Its still all or nothing! I can't give Clubhouse invites without them and the CCP knowing that I know important people that I don't want them to know! Help! Also, ban apps from the appstore that link me with people who have shared my phone number/email already. I only want to be auto-suggested with people who we both have shared. No need to be linked with everyone I met once in my life, forever.