The problem happens when something is your identity. That's why it is difficult to change someone's mind. Consider someone who is praying to God all their life

The problem happens when something is your identity. That's why it is difficult to change someone's mind. Consider someone who is praying to God all their life. And you come and tell it's a sham. Even if you provide proof - accepting that means they were wrong all their life. This is too much too handle. So most people resort to sticking with their random identities.