In my case growing up infront of the computer “helped” me avoiding all social situations. This made me a programmer, but oblivious to all sorts of things about

In my case growing up infront of the computer “helped” me avoiding all social situations. This made me a programmer, but oblivious to all sorts of things about how the world really works. I needed years of conscious effort to bring myself up to a basic level, which everyone around me seems to have mastered yeeears ago. But it’s well worth it, you just need self awareness, then realizing and admitting I’m not good at X, but will learn is the life long ultimate meta-skill.