I think it's a real crapshoot, most of the time having kids is a net positive in the long run but you could get unlucky and end up with a child requiring nonsto

I think it's a real crapshoot, most of the time having kids is a net positive in the long run but you could get unlucky and end up with a child requiring nonstop attention for the rest of his/her life due to various medical conditions and that kind of thing totally annihilates your way of life forever. I have witnessed it firsthand.