The mere fact that several people did not respond to your question in an affirming way does not mean those people "hijacked" the thread, nor does it imply these

The mere fact that several people did not respond to your question in an affirming way does not mean those people "hijacked" the thread, nor does it imply these people were "triggered". They responded, like I did, to a question which portrays segregation based on innate characteristics (sex, in this case) as a positive thing by pointing out this is actually counterproductive. Had your question been phrased differently - e.g. does anyone know of any tutorials on this subject which do not preach to the choir or ...which do not seem to be targeting the in-crowd the responses would have been different, you would probably have gotten suggestions for tutorials produced by men and women alike without any of these having been selected specifically based on the presenter's sex.