Thank you for those who chose to help. I appreciate you. I'm afraid that the rest of the responses were not constructive. Worse, they've painted a picture that

Thank you for those who chose to help. I appreciate you. I'm afraid that the rest of the responses were not constructive. Worse, they've painted a picture that is not very flattering of the HN community, I'm afraid. I'm not some woke holy warrior--not by a long shot--but you all have convinced me that sexism is a bigger problem in tech than I'd given credence to thus far. Sad.