You can align with her over anti-racism. Government should not be in the business of religious marriage, LGBT or otherwise. Leave religious marriage to religi

You can align with her over anti-racism. Government should not be in the business of religious marriage, LGBT or otherwise. Leave religious marriage to religious tribes, however they wish to define a religious marriage. Similarly, Government marriages / civil partnerships / unions whatever should not be interfered with by religious groups. I used to be a fundamentalist atheist / progressive, as you appear to be. I then realised I was turning in to the control freak that I used to despise the religious Right for being in the 2000s.