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Imho this is how we achieve greatness. People getting pissed over things there parents took as inevitable is basically the definition of progress. This is the

Imho this is how we achieve greatness. People getting pissed over things there parents took as inevitable is basically the definition of progress. This is the first generation where mental health has been considerd a value. While its easy to dismiss there terminology issues i would say a few things: 1. That its hard to imagine the impact of having a defining life challange constantly talked about by strangers callously. 2. Go back and look at historical "political correctness gone mad" arguments.. even just to the 90s. The ones i have found all seem examples of things we would not dream of saying today and for good reason. 3. These apparently low priority discussions are how you really solve the root causes of issues. Its by figurng out how to support the un supported that all of society is elevated.

michaelscott 5y ago
The idea of the child generation always progressing from the parent is dangerously clouded by the immediate past and probably also very myopic. Throughout history there are many instances where the child generation regresses the status quo by and large, sometimes over multiple generations. Even when there is progress in general, there may be specific aspects of society which do regress relative to the past. All I'm saying really is that we shouldn't look at all forward movement as necessarily moving upward.
- goodlinks 5y ago
  Hmm not sure what you are arguing against here. I didnt say all progress was good, only that progress has a profile and looking at this specific area: what is it about respecting people and understanding the importance of mental health has not been good. I literally asked the reader to look at this specific issue. But i agree not all progress is good and some progress is only temporarily good. E.g. capitalism, advertising, intellectual property
  - michaelscott 5y ago
    Wasn't referring to you specifically, but the idea of progress as a constant change made by the child generation which your comment alluded to.
lnenad 5y ago
Imho in a certain manner I get what you're saying and I kind of agree up to a certain point, but having an issue when somebody uses the word paralyzed out of physical context is not how we achieve greatness nor is having an issue with the default git branch being master, nor do similar waste of time discussions. These things are only there since the loud minority wants to signal that they're more woke than their environment. There are real issues with race, religion freedom of speech etc all around the western world.
- goodlinks 5y ago
  Same as calling some a cunt imho. The parts of scotland i grew up in it basically means "person". And if i use it at work like this people know i am not meaning it the qymay it sounds but they still correct me. That discuasion leads me to have better more productive language in the future. If i cannot handle some constructive criticism thats on me. I know it can be hard for people who are very normalised to a certain way of speaking.. but thems the breaks. Better than actually being paralysed imho.. plus if i come up with another term for this i can use it with an audience that actually includes paralised people and the reference will still make sense. No body expects perfect. I still swear too much at work and i still accidentally throw in metaphorical adjectives that belong in the past. But i am better at it than my grandpa (not that i ever heard him say cunt :) )
  - lnenad 5y ago
    Slang != Proper non-insulting terms that somebody finds insulting. The original comment was related to the word paralyzed which is miles away from using the word cunt and a pretty stupid comparison tbh.
    - goodlinks 5y ago
      Fair comment, though the word slang is doing a lot of judgement work and the whole point is that offensivity is subjective. I chose that word as its right out there on the spectrum but genuinely seems totally harmless to me and means person with some additional flavour and familiarity. I am not recommending the usage of the word. Just pointing out that my comfort with it doesnt make it okay to use. Agreed that it probably totally failed to getthe message across.. i guess as someone who grew up in a dialect i am used all kinds of moderation and consideration for the listner, and so i don't buy these hard done by arguments over being respectful. I cannot talk in a way that the thoughts come in to my head outside a ridiculously small number of people and to me, it only adds to the richness of life and my personal growth. Ymmv We are imobilised, we have lost all the momentum we had. Can we get back some of that dynamism we had prior to change x.. i dont see an issue with finding other ways to talking and if it turns out that those ways of speaking offend people i bet i willlearn somenew perspective when i hear why. This is not a newspeak situation. This is just listening and trying to cause less pain.

michaelscott 5y ago

The idea of the child generation always progressing from the parent is dangerously clouded by the immediate past and probably also very myopic. Throughout history there are many instances where the child generation regresses the status quo by and large, sometimes over multiple generations. Even when there is progress in general, there may be specific aspects of society which do regress relative to the past. All I'm saying really is that we shouldn't look at all forward movement as necessarily moving upward.

goodlinks 5y ago
Hmm not sure what you are arguing against here. I didnt say all progress was good, only that progress has a profile and looking at this specific area: what is it about respecting people and understanding the importance of mental health has not been good. I literally asked the reader to look at this specific issue. But i agree not all progress is good and some progress is only temporarily good. E.g. capitalism, advertising, intellectual property
- michaelscott 5y ago
  Wasn't referring to you specifically, but the idea of progress as a constant change made by the child generation which your comment alluded to.

lnenad 5y ago

Imho in a certain manner I get what you're saying and I kind of agree up to a certain point, but having an issue when somebody uses the word paralyzed out of physical context is not how we achieve greatness nor is having an issue with the default git branch being master, nor do similar waste of time discussions. These things are only there since the loud minority wants to signal that they're more woke than their environment. There are real issues with race, religion freedom of speech etc all around the western world.

goodlinks 5y ago
Same as calling some a cunt imho. The parts of scotland i grew up in it basically means "person". And if i use it at work like this people know i am not meaning it the qymay it sounds but they still correct me. That discuasion leads me to have better more productive language in the future. If i cannot handle some constructive criticism thats on me. I know it can be hard for people who are very normalised to a certain way of speaking.. but thems the breaks. Better than actually being paralysed imho.. plus if i come up with another term for this i can use it with an audience that actually includes paralised people and the reference will still make sense. No body expects perfect. I still swear too much at work and i still accidentally throw in metaphorical adjectives that belong in the past. But i am better at it than my grandpa (not that i ever heard him say cunt :) )
- lnenad 5y ago
  Slang != Proper non-insulting terms that somebody finds insulting. The original comment was related to the word paralyzed which is miles away from using the word cunt and a pretty stupid comparison tbh.
  - goodlinks 5y ago
    Fair comment, though the word slang is doing a lot of judgement work and the whole point is that offensivity is subjective. I chose that word as its right out there on the spectrum but genuinely seems totally harmless to me and means person with some additional flavour and familiarity. I am not recommending the usage of the word. Just pointing out that my comfort with it doesnt make it okay to use. Agreed that it probably totally failed to getthe message across.. i guess as someone who grew up in a dialect i am used all kinds of moderation and consideration for the listner, and so i don't buy these hard done by arguments over being respectful. I cannot talk in a way that the thoughts come in to my head outside a ridiculously small number of people and to me, it only adds to the richness of life and my personal growth. Ymmv We are imobilised, we have lost all the momentum we had. Can we get back some of that dynamism we had prior to change x.. i dont see an issue with finding other ways to talking and if it turns out that those ways of speaking offend people i bet i willlearn somenew perspective when i hear why. This is not a newspeak situation. This is just listening and trying to cause less pain.