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I think it has to do with what I would call "social pressure". During daytime you have to be ready for a phone / doorbell to ring, a package to be delivered, a
by Wxc2jjJmST9XWWL 5y ago
I think it has to do with what I would call "social pressure".
During daytime you have to be ready for a phone / doorbell to ring, a package to be delivered, a package by a neighbor who isn't there being brought to you, an e-mail reaching you, which demands attention, et cetera. It's louder outside. In front of your house kids might play, a dog might bark, traffic is heavier, gardening work is going on,... it feels like a world for extroverts and there is the risk of something demanding your immediate attention while you don't feel like it. There is a "societal" pressure on you to be functioning.
And at night, it's the opposite.
You can finally relax, focus, you know nothing of that will happen. You feel safe knowing that people around you are sleeping. No one expects anything from you during these hours, because it's the designated time for sleep. What you do now is outside of anyone's expectations, it's your time, your time alone. No commitments, freedom, and focus.
So I wonder if night owls are predominantly introverts with some form of social anxiety (whether they realize it or not) and I certainly think there's a large overlap there. I'm speculating, and I am sure it's not true for plenty of people, but it certainly describes me.
- jlokier 5y agoI feel like that if I get up early enough. (I'm a night owl but my sleep is all over the place.) Getting at 2-4am, feels great, like there's plenty of time and the hordes are fast asleep, or going to sleep. Finally I have a stretch of time to get some real work done Getting up at 7am doesn't have any of that benefit. There are too many people around by then.
- eitland 5y agoMy experience as well. Waking up at 0600 instead of 0700 is one wasted sleep. Waking up 0400 means two peaceful hours before the hordes wake up, and I am awake when they do wake up.
- linkdd 5y agoI relate so much to this. No matter how early (or late) I get up, my day is not done until 3-4am when I had time for myself without the bothering of others/society's expectations. During the week, I'll sleep 5-6h and start to work, on the weekend I'll pay my sleep debt and sleep 10-11h.
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- logarus 5y agoDamn that hit hard, and gave me lots of info to bring up with my therapist. Thanks