I am not disagreeing with you on families. My point is about oversight, and graves. Here, recently, we had a case of some missing kids where the children were

I am not disagreeing with you on families. My point is about oversight, and graves. Here, recently, we had a case of some missing kids where the children were killed and buried in the back yard. The difference is that there was a swiftness in catching them. Or that little girl that was starved to death by her parents near to me -- again, caught. When it is an institution, there are no external checks on that institution, and so you get these mass graves and by the time people clue in, the perpetrators are dead. My point is that if you're the one auditing your own books, you can get away with a lot, for a long long time, and sometimes that means retiring with having gotten away with it.