Very much to what I came here to say. 1. Time. 2. Know (and accept) that different people grieve differently. Some are quiet, some histrionic. Some deal qui

Very much to what I came here to say. 1. Time. 2. Know (and accept) that different people grieve differently. Some are quiet, some histrionic. Some deal quickly, some slowly. Some talk, some don't. Some want company, some need solitude. Allow yourself (and/or others) to be themselves, and don't try to force yourself (or someone else) into a preconceived 'this is how you should behave/grieve/deal' mould.