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It's pretty common here in the US, too. But it's also pretty common here to think that if you can do something yourself, you probably should, and save the mone
by wccrawford 5y ago
It's pretty common here in the US, too.
But it's also pretty common here to think that if you can do something yourself, you probably should, and save the money. So most people think "I'll move my stuff myself" before either doing that, or looking at their stuff and deciding it's worth paying someone instead.
A few years ago, a friend of mine asked me to help move. My wife and I helped him, but afterwards she said that she was never doing that again and that next time we'd just offer them some money towards the movers.
I didn't argue at the time, but I enjoy helping people move. It's a lot of work, which means it's good exercise, and you spend time with your friend on something that matters to them.
Also, I'm not sure how I'd offer that money without feeling like I'm looking down on them. It feels like a hand-out, not help. So I'll probably never do this, unless they straight up ask for money for a move.
- Symbiote 5y agoI understood helping friends move when we were students. Money is tight, it's the same city, and everyone moves at roughly the same rate. I didn't understand why a friend with a good job wanted his friends to drag all his furniture across town and up 4 flights of stairs. I'm invited to "help move" someone's stuff in September. He has booked movers, and says we'll drink beer while watching them unload, then have a party. That sounds like a good non-student version.