I think you have to step out of the frame, and twist it sideways to pinpoint a source of disagreement that is not value laden, not a landmine, but can lead them

I think you have to step out of the frame, and twist it sideways to pinpoint a source of disagreement that is not value laden, not a landmine, but can lead them in the direction you want them to go. Steve Waldman was my entry point to this idea in his blog post on lenses and double cruxes: https://www.interfluidity.com/v2/7216.html https://www.interfluidity.com/v2/7216.html