Well perhaps, but I believe in personal responsibility. I'm sure most people have much darker thoughts than "most Bay Area women are soft", I definitely do. An

Well perhaps, but I believe in personal responsibility. I'm sure most people have much darker thoughts than "most Bay Area women are soft", I definitely do. And I'm sure a number of people have had dark thoughts about me, my gender, my ethnicity, my appearance or whatever. But that is expected, it's part of living in a society, the unspoken rule is that everyone thinks these thoughts but you treat people as if you didn't. For example, I wouldn't have any problem working alongside a rabid feminist who a few years earlier had written some shocking things about how men are idiots, as long as she's polite and fair to me.