Thanks! I agree that the roles in marriage or other long term relationships are less clear than they have been in the past. Overall that's probably a good thi

Thanks! I agree that the roles in marriage or other long term relationships are less clear than they have been in the past. Overall that's probably a good thing in terms of creating the potential for each person to self-actualize, but as you point out, exactly what role each person expects to have in a marriage is not known without a very, very thorough discussion about each aspect. What do you think about Suzanne Venker?