Great way to shutdown an argument without contributing anything. Shame someone for not thinking like you do. I feel like I am the victim if I'm the person cons

Great way to shutdown an argument without contributing anything. Shame someone for not thinking like you do. I feel like I am the victim if I'm the person considered to be "in the wrong" because I won't use this new language other people are creating and recreating all the time. I didn't have to worry about compelled speech like that 10 years ago.