I've found myself using the gender neutral reactions instead of the gendered versions despite not identifying with them as much just so my colleagues don't have

I've found myself using the gender neutral reactions instead of the gendered versions despite not identifying with them as much just so my colleagues don't have to choose between incrementing an emoji that doesn't represent them and highlighting that they're different by adding their own gendered reaction. But it'd be nice to not have to think about it the first place.