Oh - I don't think there's anything wrong with viewing a wedding as a luxurious event in your life and spending a lot on it it's just... Do you actually value w

Oh - I don't think there's anything wrong with viewing a wedding as a luxurious event in your life and spending a lot on it it's just... Do you actually value what you're getting out of blowing 40k on a particular day more than having[1] 50 days of all-inclusive honeymoon vacation in Cancun? Or like, putting a down payment on a relatively fancy[2] house. I wouldn't judge anyone who made this choice - but if I was their friend I would ask a lot of questions about whether they'd actually enjoy it or just feel like it's a thing you "absolutely must do" due to weird cultural hangups. My wedding was quite pleasant, but it was mostly a blur because it wasn't for us. I think generally isn't a party for the groom and bride to actually maximally enjoy - it's a celebration with the guests. 1. At canadian rates, 'cause I'm Canadian. Somewhat estimated since nothing lets you book that long. 2. Highly dependent on the housing market you're in - if you're in wisconsin enjoy the mansion - if you're in SF enjoy what's probably a slightly larger than average studio.