I am guessing you are downvoted because a transforum is arguable one of the very few places where that question makes sense. I would find it deeply wrong if HN

I am guessing you are downvoted because a transforum is arguable one of the very few places where that question makes sense. I would find it deeply wrong if HN were to ask for the gender of their users, let alone their sexual preferences, but I would expect the same of a dating site. But I don't disagree with you in general. I also miss the intimacy a nick could afford you. Somehow you could talk about deeper things when nobody knew your name.