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Sure. First thank you for the honest question. I was poor growing up. Many things on this list resonate with me, but I'll add a few others. > During middle sch
by SamuelAdams 5y ago
Sure. First thank you for the honest question. I was poor growing up. Many things on this list resonate with me, but I'll add a few others.
> During middle school, I would often skip lunch altogether.
> The first time I went on an out-of-state trip was during college.
> I went snowboarding (for the first time) with some friends a few years ago (age 24) and they didn't even balk at the $500 / night room prices for the all inclusive resort.
> I now feel rich because my car's check engine light is not on.
Ways you can help with this:
* Understand that your coworkers may not have the same experiences as you. If someone tells a joke ("Summering in the Cayman islands" [referencing tax evasion or similar]), perhaps pull them aside later, one on one, and explain why the particular thing was funny.
* Talk about the last book you read. Why was it interesting to you? Poor people and rich people read very different books. Offering insight into whatever issues you read through books might help them have easier conversations with others. For example I'm currently reading "An American sickness" which discusses the rising cost of health care in America. A poor person would focus on why *their* individual healthcare is so expensive, but a rich person looks at the whole system. And that is what this book more or less discusses.
It's not unlike learning a foreign language. Even if you memorize the words and phrases, there's all sorts of ways they are used that can make it difficult to use as a communication tool. Try to identify those odd words or phrases and explain those to others. However this can apply to any company / culture, its not necessarily a rich / poor thing.