Sounds like its important to you what other people are doing and thinking. You mention your parents, your social circle etc. In some people its a deep psycholo

Sounds like its important to you what other people are doing and thinking. You mention your parents, your social circle etc. In some people its a deep psychological NEED to please others/fit into a particular group etc. If it is indeed a default setting in your brain then you have to meet that need to stay happy. If you cant meet that need for whatever reasons, dont sit around blaming yourself, change the people around you. Easier said than done for people who have a need to fit in with the group around them but its the main route out of what can become a big trap.