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I wasted a lot of time chasing women and dated many attractive ones, including a few signed models, in my mid 20s and now I’m married to someone I consider hot
by world_peace42 5y ago
I wasted a lot of time chasing women and dated many attractive ones, including a few signed models, in my mid 20s and now I’m married to someone I consider hot (plus a ton other great qualities that models often lack). I think wasted a lot of time. I don’t think you’re wrong at all but this is PUA-centric life advice. If your goal is to have sex with beautiful women, sure, it’s possible (for more than just rich, established, or extremely good looking men), and after great effort and sinking a lot of time in, you can accomplish that and brag to the internet how successful you are.
But, none of that negates what the poster above you is saying. If you spend your younger years focusing on yourself and your career and gaining meaningful life experience instead of chasing thousands of women, that problem should solve itself. I can’t imagine any woman that would make a non-miserable partner would be attracted to the Tucker Max type - although sadly this is what our culture is heading towards.
- totony 5y agoI think both are true, if you are accomplished, but know no woman (n=0), your chances of finding a suitable partner are very low, same for if you are full of problems but have a big n. Tbh I don't think this is particularly PUA advice. Clearly if you know more woman your chances of finding one you like who likes you back are higher than if you just wait for someone to present herself to you (which is very unlikely as a man particularly).