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No offense but it sounds like you are more interested in being offended than comprehension and evolution. My whole point is that social skills and interaction
by xyzelement 5y ago
No offense but it sounds like you are more interested in being offended than comprehension and evolution.
My whole point is that social skills and interaction are just that - skills. You can invest in them if you are introverted or even if you have some social anxiety (as, I suspect, I do.)
If someone instead insists that there's nothing for them to learn, that their "badness" with people is a badge of honor in some way, then they just justify being bad at the expense of people around them.
But, I guess we can just ignore that, forego the opportunity to improve, because you find it problematic :)
- sidlls 5y agoYou’re the one suddenly bringing up an unwillingness to learn. It’s quite telling, too, as the language you used suggests you don’t view these things as medical conditions or disabilities, but instead personal failings to overcome. Also, pointing out meanness in a comment isn’t the same as being offended: it’s quite presumptuous really.
- yesenadam 5y agoWhen you find yourself starting a comment with "No offense but", perhaps look at why you felt your comment might cause offence. Then rewrite it in a kinder and less mean way that doesn't need a disclaimer. Your comment would have come across better—as trying to help, not trying to mock—without the first and last lines, which seem to break the guidelines.