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> In fact, the opposite would seem to be true, especially since women do have a preference for wealth, stability and status. I repeatedly see this claim in An
by durnygbur 5y ago
> In fact, the opposite would seem to be true, especially since women do have a preference for wealth, stability and status.
I repeatedly see this claim in Anglosphere discussions and books but see counter examples within my culture. Slavic women (Polish, Russian, Ukrainian) desperately hooked up to men they perceived as higher status (attractive Italian, Spanish, French, German etc) then betrayed and rejected. Traumatised later on these women intentionally picked less attractive men (chubby, bald, lower, from sexist cultures, average job) so they are sure these men got something "above their league" and they'll never desert them. Basically prioritising stability (but not necessarily security) over wealth and status.
- globular-toast 5y agoSo they went for stability then.
- durnygbur 5y agoThat's a good observation though, e.g wifes of former president of US went for wealth and status with no stability. Some coincidentally are Slavic as well. Just getting all three of them seems extremely difficult as I cannot imagine a man that would volunteer to offer all three simultanously.