People (the women) don't start with asking "how much money do you make" and might not discover that, until they're a bit in love already, and thereafter they mi

People (the women) don't start with asking "how much money do you make" and might not discover that, until they're a bit in love already, and thereafter they might think it doesn't matter that much? So being happy (having created a happy life for oneself) and taking care of oneself (and others) is what matters more I suppose