>> Where is the judgemental advice that we don't want to hear (and is probably politically incorrect), but we really should hear anyway? > I'm not sure what yo

>> Where is the judgemental advice that we don't want to hear (and is probably politically incorrect), but we really should hear anyway? > I'm not sure what you mean with 'political incorrect'. What advice would you reference which is probably political incorrect? Not the OP, but working backward from "politically incorrect," an example may be advice that assumes or advocates for aspects of traditional general roles. Such advice could be both politically incorrect yet valid and useful for a large majority of couples.