It's a common startup problem. I have no doubt. Most of startup suck, honestly. However, there is a few reason why a few thrive. You might want to check: * Why

It's a common startup problem. I have no doubt. Most of startup suck, honestly. However, there is a few reason why a few thrive. You might want to check: * Why would you join a startup? Wealth? Opportunity? Or some deep meanings. * Which stage is it? The earlier it is, the worsen a company is managed. In your case, a late stage company still in a turmoil is a huge question mark. * For startups, it's always better with showcase than a promise. If I were you, I would take a reference that matched to the first bullet.