If you find it offensive that sometimes people are treated differently (intentionally or not) because of their gender or race you wouldn't be alone! But, wheth

If you find it offensive that sometimes people are treated differently (intentionally or not) because of their gender or race you wouldn't be alone! But, whether these concerns are real or just perceived, they won't go away simply by preventing people from talking about them. That just reinforces the perception of injustice.