There isn't actually a distinction. In both cases it's the super-ego, the internal representation of "public", that's the ruleset for what's good and bad. Pride

There isn't actually a distinction. In both cases it's the super-ego, the internal representation of "public", that's the ruleset for what's good and bad. Pride is about judgment (and self-judgment) by the super-ego. You could argue that if you're alone it's not destructive, but I don't believe that.