Oh no, that's too mild. Things that rise to the level of "offensive" are "violence," not merely "abuse." Tongue somewhat in cheek, of course, but I do have a

Oh no, that's too mild. Things that rise to the level of "offensive" are "violence," not merely "abuse." Tongue somewhat in cheek, of course, but I do have a friend whose claim to the "Me too" movement was that an older gentleman had called her "young lady" once.