This is such an important realization. And when you have it and then think back in your life to the failed relationships you've had (personal and professional)

This is such an important realization. And when you have it and then think back in your life to the failed relationships you've had (personal and professional) it's usually very staggering the degree to which your caveman sabotaged you. Learn this lesson young, and you will save yourself decades of squandered time. Most people never appreciate the degree to which their emotions sabotage their lives.