In such circumstances, the family often would know the truth. And that is put to save them the social and other repercussions. A friend of mine took his own l

In such circumstances, the family often would know the truth. And that is put to save them the social and other repercussions. A friend of mine took his own life. The obituary said sudden accident. It's what his family will say in most situations. But they know. It would be very twisted to keep relatives in the dark, though I'm sure someone has done so and thought it a kindness.