I'm pretty sure that's not what the author meant in the movie and helmet examples. > A) Call Leia and show interest in her weekend, and in her as a person, and

I'm pretty sure that's not what the author meant in the movie and helmet examples. > A) Call Leia and show interest in her weekend, and in her as a person, and after some pleasantries are exchanged, mention how amazing the main character is in the movie he watched. --- > Situation: Kylo has been fascinated with helmets since time immortal. He custom designs and builds his own helmet. Knowing most of his friends don’t share his passion, he is hesitant to wear his new helmet at their next gathering. > Answer: Send out an email to all his friends and include photos of his new helmet. The first one heavily implies that Luke just calling his friend is a better and more personal way of catching up, and the second one doesn't say the person should send a weekly email summary, it's saying for big projects one is passionate about, email may be a better choice than instant messaging.