I run my own email server. The most important people in my life have accounts on my own server. No gmail needed or wanted. I can answer all of those questions o

I run my own email server. The most important people in my life have accounts on my own server. No gmail needed or wanted. I can answer all of those questions of delivery for myself. We get so much spam from gmail that gmail has earned itself an increased spam score just because its gmail. Its unlikely that my users see much from gmail, unless they want it.