> I can't know whether his comment was reasonable without looking through the comments he was referring to (and neither can you) Nah, I can. It seems quite tox

> I can't know whether his comment was reasonable without looking through the comments he was referring to (and neither can you) Nah, I can. It seems quite toxic regardless of what has been said to him. > even given that he was being unreasonable, you chose to be unreasonable in turn I don’t see what is unreasonable about shaming anti-social behavior. When you see any “unsolicited advice”, even between two same gendered persons, as a manifestation of patriarchy you are bound to come off as toxic.