> She could have used it to get more flexibility, better job security, maybe a more interesting role, etc She could have had a 3 x higher salary and done all t

> She could have used it to get more flexibility, better job security, maybe a more interesting role, etc She could have had a 3 x higher salary and done all those things (or so I think, based on GP's description). When you understand your own worth (workplace wise), the others respect you more, and it's simpler to change things the way you want.