I even have this issue in language learning. I ask a quæstion about a specific, unusual grammatical form in a language I find hard to understand, and I am met

I even have this issue in language learning. I ask a quæstion about a specific, unusual grammatical form in a language I find hard to understand, and I am met with “You should instead phrase it in this more basic way that you already understand.”. I am obviously not asking how to translate the specific example sentence I conjured up, I am asking about how to use the specific grammatical form I inquired about.