This reminds me of people who have children very young and by the time they realize in their late 30s how crazy the idea of a 21 year old being the sole exampl

This reminds me of people who have children very young and by the time they realize in their late 30s how crazy the idea of a 21 year old being the sole example of how a human should behave, the children are now adults. Some things best done with youthful ignorance I suppose.