This discussion needs more exposure because it is hammering the nail hard in the head. I have come to both conclusions on my own too... Is it better to live in

This discussion needs more exposure because it is hammering the nail hard in the head. I have come to both conclusions on my own too... Is it better to live in competition to avoid thinking... Or... Is it better to derive joy form external factors: family, craft, nature. I have no good answer but love where the discussion is going. I also live in Scandinavia.