I'm not sure if you're asking for specific advice personally, or thinking of others but my response is generally the same. It's very hard for even a well adjust

I'm not sure if you're asking for specific advice personally, or thinking of others but my response is generally the same. It's very hard for even a well adjusted person to create a replacement familial environment. In decades past the advice would be to go to church. Today? I've got no clue, I'm trying to figure this out. Establishing, and garnering respect for, clear boundaries with ones abusers is an exceptionally tough task for teams of social workers working in the context of child protective services who have leverage, and the legally authorized threat of force, over the abusers. The best alternatives are to "build relationships" with good people and find a "good psychologist" to assist you along the path as you assuredly take detours off your path and lose your way. It's hard, you'll find disappointments, may be revictimized, possibly suffer your own regressions and have to rely on yourself more than anyone should have too. I'm sorry I don't have good answers, but the task at hand is surmountable and everyone deserves a safe, loving, supportive familial-like community to uplift them and be uplifted by them.