There seems to be a different norm when genders are reversed, though. https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/withholding-intimacy-can-be-a

There seems to be a different norm when genders are reversed, though. https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/withholding-intimacy-can-be-abusive-too https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/... > Weston says her abuser used to withhold sexual contact during times when she asked to be intimate. He also used withholding affection as a punishment. “If I looked at him wrong, he refused to kiss me,” she says.