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The real problem is that the ones that lose the game are effectively invisible because their outcome is not desired by the people complaining that men are overr
by 77pt77 5y ago
The real problem is that the ones that lose the game are effectively invisible because their outcome is not desired by the people complaining that men are overrepresented at the top.
- trashtester 5y agoExactly. The root of the problem seems to be about optics. In some areas (business, science, etc), 90% of people that reach high enough to become famous, are men. A large percentage of "normal" people, ie close to the median will see those famous people as potential role models. When their internal pattern matching engine detects that 90% of those belong to a class they do not identify with, that can cause a crisis of faith in their own dreams, self-esteem, etc. At that point, there is no comfort to be found that 90% of the people at the very bottom belong to the same class as those at the top. Not only do they not see those at the bottom, they do not WANT to see them. So if someone tells a story that explains the difference as a result of oppression, it becomes really tempting to chose that explanation, whether or not it is true. Oppression may indeed be the main reason for differences in many cases, but even when it is not, it will be attractive to believe it is.
- tachyonbeam 5y agoShould also be pointed out that there are probably two or three orders of magnitude more men at the bottom than there are men at the top. It's asymmetric. Your odds of failure are much higher than your odds of incredible success.